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Pregnancy and Infant Loss Rememberance Day 2011


    

    
     Today's post is not one I even want to have reason to write.  However I do have a reason, therefore I am writing about it. A few years I ago I had no idea this day even existed. On September 28, 2006 the US House of Representatives voted with out objection that October 15th of each year is an appropriate day to observe National Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day.


     In May of 2008 I experienced a miscarriage of our first child.  Now add in the military factor to the equation.  My husband was at a duty station 15 hours away going to school.  I was much to upset at the impending reality so I had to call a dear friend to drive me to the doctor's office.  She stayed with me the entire day, and then took me home.  We have some very special friends that we have made on our military journey.  Another friend stepped in the next day to make sure I was not alone.  I will forever remember the time the sit with me.  The one who held my hand when I called my husband to tell him, and the sound of his voice after the news sunk in.  


     I often wonder what that precious little angel would have been like.  I do however take joy in knowing that there is one more angel in heaven waiting on me.  I am certain my baby angel is enjoy God's company, and entertaining my dad along with all my other family members that our looking down at us.  We waited the recommend amount of time, and immediately tried again.  Being lucky we were soon pregnant and did not have to wait long.  The first months of my second pregnancy were spent on pins and needles waiting to hear the heartbeat.  I made sure my husband was off work for the first ultrasound because I was terrified something would be wrong.  


     During the second pregnancy came what would have been the due date of our first child.  So early December is not my favorite time of year.  However I do take the time to think about the fact that God must have needed one more angel that day.  I also remember that God has since blessed me with two little angels on earth with me.  


     This post is for all the loved one out there of the little angels in heaven.  If you or someone you know has dealt with losing a child please remember them today. Light a candle tonight at 7pm in your time zone.  Add to the wave of light.  

 Precious Little One
I`m just a precious little one
who didn't make it there.
I went straight to be with Jesus,
but I`m waiting for you here.
Many dwelling here where I live,
waited years to enter in.
Struggled through a world of sorrow,
a world marred with pain and sin.
Thank you for the life you gave me,
it was brief but don`t complain.
I have all Heaven`s Glory,
suffered none of earth`s great pain.
Thank you for the name you gave me.
I`d have loved to bring it fame.
But if I`d lingered in earth`s shadows,
I would have suffered just the same.
So sweet family-don`t you sorrow.
Wipe those tears and chase the gloom.
I went straight to Jesus` arms
from my loving Mother`s womb.
~Author Unknown 

I dedicate this post to Baby B and Kathlyn. One day we will all meet in heaven. Please feel free to leave link below to your own personal story.









I'm so EXCITED!!

     Ok it might seem a little overboard, but I am totally pumped.  The Zoo where we live is having a military appreciation day!!! That means we get to go to the zoo for FREE!

     Now while I am sure I will not have near as much fun as my two year old I am stoked.  He is going to LOVE it.  Currently he runs around our house pretending to be different animals.  I can only imagine his excitement with getting to see all the animals in person.  Then there is the obligatory petting zoo inside the zoo.  He is going to completely flip at the idea of petting all the animals.  I just hope the goats behave.

     I am not quite sure my husband shares the same enthusiasm about the impending zoo trip that I do.  He has duty the day before, and will need a nap before we go.  However I am certain that once he gets there, and sees the boys having a good time he will also have fun.  Little baby Ken, I have to use baby as long as possible because his first birthday is coming up.  Anyway little baby Ken will most like not think it is the best trip of his life, but he will enjoy riding in the stroller. Now I just hope the nice weather will hold out.

     Do you remember your first trip to the zoo? Maybe you have fond memories of your little ones first trip to the zoo.  Please leave a comment sharing your favorite moment at the zoo.

     The first thing I ever remember about the zoo was as family trip we took when I was little.  Being the oldest I was out prancing around, and being reminded to keep up with our group.  We had to stop for awhile at the hippo building.  Not that I don't like hippos, but it felt like we were there forever.  All because my little brother got covered in bird poop.  That is right he was the target of a fly by pooping.  I still remember this as being totally hilarious.  The good news is he was most likely to small to remember.  The bad news he hates being the center of attention.  Sorry man I had to share!  Maybe something awesome will happen on our first family trip to the zoo, and then I can use a new story.  Stay tuned for update next week all about the zoo.

     So lets hear it what is your best memory of the zoo.

Do toddlers ever sleep?

     Do you have kids that never seem to go to bed on time?  At one time I could say no my kids are always in bed, and asleep when I would like them to be. However the times they are a changing.
 
     General overview my 2 1/2 year old and my 11month old share a room.  We do have another bed room, but it is upstairs and I prefer to not put one of them up there alone.  Initially everything was fine, and they would both go to sleep. Now the tiny man goes to sleep at first, but then his big brother gets up and wakes him so they can play.

     On a few occasions toddler man has skipped his afternoon nap due to an urgent outing such as, grocery shopping.  These days he goes to sleep quickly once in bed at night, but around dinner time he is a terror. Since he did not get a nap these days we try to ignore his whining attempts to get what he wants.

     The new technique we are trying for bed time is baby goes to sleep in their room, and toddler falls asleep in mom and dad's bed to be moved to his bed later.  This is working currently, but I wonder if it has brought up our new problem.

     In the past three days Korvin, my poor toddler has awoken around 3AM and wandered into our room, with his blanket.  Now my first response in my sleep haze is to pick him up in to our bed, and go back to sleep.  His plan however seems to be stay awake, and play with mom's hair.  On the weekend it was not a problem, but today he came in at 3 AM and hubby's alarm for work goes off at 4:30 AM.  I generally get up with my hubby, so that I can have my alone time in the morning.  This is seriously the only time I have by myself!

     The random waking does not seem to be caused by the bad dreams, or whatever it was that used to wake him up.  I guess the bad dream reaction could have changed from sitting in bed screaming to getting up and finding mom and dad.

     Do you have any tips or general suggestions?  Please leave me a comment below with any ideas you may have.  Sincerely the mama that wants to have a few hours in the morning to herself!!

Formula

Well baby boy number two is here to be know in the blog as K2. Anyway I find myself becoming frustrated with breastfeeding this time around. I really wish I was not as I feel K2 will be left out since I breastfed K for six months. So some of me wants to just do formula as it sounds like it would be easier, but my other side feels like I am letting my little man down. Ahhh the guilt !!


On another note the Navy will be moving us by the beginning of April this year. I wonder how the boys will do as we plan to have them share a room when we move. On top of that my oldest little man is showing signs of wanting to potty train. I was going to wait on potty training until after the move because that will be right around his 2nd birthday !

These snow days stuck at the house leave to much time for my mind to randomly spin !
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Formula

Well baby boy number two is here to be know in the blog as K2. Anyway I find myself becoming frustrated with breastfeeding this time around. I really wish I was not as I feel K2 will be left out since I breastfed K for six months. So some of me wants to just do formula as it sounds like it would be easier, but my other side feels like I am letting my little man down. Ahhh the guilt !!


On another note the Navy will be moving us by the beginning of April this year. I wonder how the boys will do as we plan to have them share a room when we move. On top of that my oldest little man is showing signs of wanting to potty train. I was going to wait on potty training until after the move because that will be right around his 2nd birthday !

These snow days stuck at the house leave to much time for my mind to randomly spin !
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On the Mend!!

     Well it appears all the guys are on the mend.  Thank goodness.  I was not sure how long I could hold out juggling the baby, and sanatizing everything in the house.  On the down side it is warm and muggy here, but wait it gets better, the AC is out AGAIN!!  I mean seriously this is the 4th time this year.  Now as for the holiday weekend going on, i am hoping the AC guy gets here Monday.  I am not in to sweating all day and night due to humidity. 
     Anyway got a lot done today overall.  The dogs got pedicures, dishes are done, and half the vacuuming is done.  So off to a good start for the holiday weekend.  Now if I can only keep the steam rolling all weekend I might get the entire to do list done.  Haha that will never happen.  The darn to do list is never ending.  So here goes hoping that the baby and I do not get sick, and that the housework keeps on rolling. 

On the Mend!!

     Well it appears all the guys are on the mend.  Thank goodness.  I was not sure how long I could hold out juggling the baby, and sanatizing everything in the house.  On the down side it is warm and muggy here, but wait it gets better, the AC is out AGAIN!!  I mean seriously this is the 4th time this year.  Now as for the holiday weekend going on, i am hoping the AC guy gets here Monday.  I am not in to sweating all day and night due to humidity. 
     Anyway got a lot done today overall.  The dogs got pedicures, dishes are done, and half the vacuuming is done.  So off to a good start for the holiday weekend.  Now if I can only keep the steam rolling all weekend I might get the entire to do list done.  Haha that will never happen.  The darn to do list is never ending.  So here goes hoping that the baby and I do not get sick, and that the housework keeps on rolling. 

That CAT!!

     Well K was grouchy most of the day.  So I was busy trying to stay somewhat sane with a screaming midget in the house.  While I was changing a diaper the cat comes up being all nice and rubbing on my legs like a good little cat.  As soon as I quit paying attention to the cat he hacks up a big hairball directly behind me.  The darn cat managed to do this twice today since he is such a little helper.  I think he waits for the worst time to do such things.
     Any way got the little man to go to bed a little late, but not bad considering how our day went.  Waiting on the hubby to get home.  He forgot to call so dinner was not ready to go when he got here.  I whipped up some torteloni in marinara sauce with green beans mixed in.  I find it much easier to get hubby to eat vegetables if I can mix it in to something.  If the veggies are in a seperate pan that clearly means that they are optional. 
     On a good not the community yard sale is coming up.  Two whole weekends in October to roam the neighborhood, and look for baby equipment for the wee one to grow in to.  The family back home is starting to ask about Christmas/New Year's plans.  If only the Navy would let me have this much time to plan.  All we know so far is which family we are visiting for which holiday.  Houston for Christmas, and the vallley for New Years.  Chalk it up to one more thing to start adding to the to do list.
     Well I am off to get a nice long relaxing shower and then off to bed for some reading!! Good night all!!

That CAT!!

     Well K was grouchy most of the day.  So I was busy trying to stay somewhat sane with a screaming midget in the house.  While I was changing a diaper the cat comes up being all nice and rubbing on my legs like a good little cat.  As soon as I quit paying attention to the cat he hacks up a big hairball directly behind me.  The darn cat managed to do this twice today since he is such a little helper.  I think he waits for the worst time to do such things.
     Any way got the little man to go to bed a little late, but not bad considering how our day went.  Waiting on the hubby to get home.  He forgot to call so dinner was not ready to go when he got here.  I whipped up some torteloni in marinara sauce with green beans mixed in.  I find it much easier to get hubby to eat vegetables if I can mix it in to something.  If the veggies are in a seperate pan that clearly means that they are optional. 
     On a good not the community yard sale is coming up.  Two whole weekends in October to roam the neighborhood, and look for baby equipment for the wee one to grow in to.  The family back home is starting to ask about Christmas/New Year's plans.  If only the Navy would let me have this much time to plan.  All we know so far is which family we are visiting for which holiday.  Houston for Christmas, and the vallley for New Years.  Chalk it up to one more thing to start adding to the to do list.
     Well I am off to get a nice long relaxing shower and then off to bed for some reading!! Good night all!!

The day to day.

     Well today's good news, is that we still have renters for another month at the house in Virginia!!!!  That means not so much worry on the budget part.  I do hope they find new renters that want in before these guys decide to leave.  I think we are going to tell the property manager to up the rent which will work out even better.  So that was a big load off my plate in the money department. 
     The weather iscooling off so all the dogs found some long lost energy.  They have been running around playing like puppies for two days.  The cats on the other hand are looking for cuddly places to spend the days. 
     Getting the house ready for the sister in law to visit.  She is allergic to cats, so I will be scrubbing the cats and doing some extra vacuuming, and dusting.  I should probablly tell her thanks for coming so I get all this house work done.  Big plans for the weekend while she is here.  Photo shoot for the babies!!! Her little girl is four months younger than K.  Then getting ready for some scrapbooking and crafting.  It will be fun to have a little more girl energy in the house.
     K was pretty good today over all.  I mean for the day after shots he was awesome I suppose.  We made it out to get groceries, and other household stuffs.  Then he was well behaved while the AC/heater guys were here.  He also found it in his schedule to let me have time to call the DMV, and wait on hold for 16 minutes.
     Over all a very productive day in our little world. 

The day to day.

     Well today's good news, is that we still have renters for another month at the house in Virginia!!!!  That means not so much worry on the budget part.  I do hope they find new renters that want in before these guys decide to leave.  I think we are going to tell the property manager to up the rent which will work out even better.  So that was a big load off my plate in the money department. 
     The weather iscooling off so all the dogs found some long lost energy.  They have been running around playing like puppies for two days.  The cats on the other hand are looking for cuddly places to spend the days. 
     Getting the house ready for the sister in law to visit.  She is allergic to cats, so I will be scrubbing the cats and doing some extra vacuuming, and dusting.  I should probablly tell her thanks for coming so I get all this house work done.  Big plans for the weekend while she is here.  Photo shoot for the babies!!! Her little girl is four months younger than K.  Then getting ready for some scrapbooking and crafting.  It will be fun to have a little more girl energy in the house.
     K was pretty good today over all.  I mean for the day after shots he was awesome I suppose.  We made it out to get groceries, and other household stuffs.  Then he was well behaved while the AC/heater guys were here.  He also found it in his schedule to let me have time to call the DMV, and wait on hold for 16 minutes.
     Over all a very productive day in our little world. 

Visiting the Dr.

     Man was today busy.  Up early and off to the pediatrician. That took 2 hours because of the million kids sick with the flu.  Thank goodness our pediatrician office has 2 waiting rooms(sick/well)!! Anyway poor little K got 4 shots and a liquid vaccine today.  He was such a trooper.  Of course we get home and he is grumpy for the rest of the day.  He went to sleep a little late, but he was up when daddy got home so good trade I guess. 
     So in between grouchy baby, and everything else!! I managed to wash all of the cloth diapers, and a load of dishes.  Then it was left-overs for dinner.  Sneaking in a little bit of blog work, and balancing the check book.  Tomorrow will be full of exciting stuff like paying all the bills oh joy!!

Check out the recipe on the new blog http://kitchenmixing.blogspot.com/

Visiting the Dr.

     Man was today busy.  Up early and off to the pediatrician. That took 2 hours because of the million kids sick with the flu.  Thank goodness our pediatrician office has 2 waiting rooms(sick/well)!! Anyway poor little K got 4 shots and a liquid vaccine today.  He was such a trooper.  Of course we get home and he is grumpy for the rest of the day.  He went to sleep a little late, but he was up when daddy got home so good trade I guess. 
     So in between grouchy baby, and everything else!! I managed to wash all of the cloth diapers, and a load of dishes.  Then it was left-overs for dinner.  Sneaking in a little bit of blog work, and balancing the check book.  Tomorrow will be full of exciting stuff like paying all the bills oh joy!!

Check out the recipe on the new blog http://kitchenmixing.blogspot.com/

Progress Made!!

     Well today's big accomplishment was vacuuming the downstairs.  Mixed in with juggling the baby, and making dinner.  Thank you who ever invented the crock pot!! That kitchen gadget is so handy.  Dropped a chicken in covered it in potatoes, and add some spice.  Tada dinner made itself. 
     I think the little man is getting that second tooth right now he was clingy and grumpy all day.  That just means tomorrow should be very exciting.  I mean who would not enjoy going to the pediatrician for shots with a teething baby!!!  So I hope I get enough sleep tonight. I really am not anticipating anything fun tomorrow.  Oh and to throw it in we have/need to go grocery shopping tomorrow. 
     I posted a quick fun recipe on the up and coming cooking blog.  http://kitchenmixing.blogspot.com/  Swing by and check it out!!

Progress Made!!

     Well today's big accomplishment was vacuuming the downstairs.  Mixed in with juggling the baby, and making dinner.  Thank you who ever invented the crock pot!! That kitchen gadget is so handy.  Dropped a chicken in covered it in potatoes, and add some spice.  Tada dinner made itself. 
     I think the little man is getting that second tooth right now he was clingy and grumpy all day.  That just means tomorrow should be very exciting.  I mean who would not enjoy going to the pediatrician for shots with a teething baby!!!  So I hope I get enough sleep tonight. I really am not anticipating anything fun tomorrow.  Oh and to throw it in we have/need to go grocery shopping tomorrow. 
     I posted a quick fun recipe on the up and coming cooking blog.  http://kitchenmixing.blogspot.com/  Swing by and check it out!!

A very productive day!

Well my hubby watched the munchkin most of the day!!! I got a lot of the crafty stuff I needed to done. Two blankets made for baby shower gifts, and a trick or treat bag for K plus a spare little bag.


                                               blanket1: fleece lined with satin



                                                blanket2: fleece lined with satin


                                       
                                             And here is the trick or treat bag
                                             


Overall I was thrilled to have the majority of the day to get done what I wanted to! Gotta love the hubby! Of course I think K only learned how to play a video game, but it's male bonding who am I to complain!

Signing off one very happy mama!!!

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A very productive day!

Well my hubby watched the munchkin most of the day!!! I got a lot of the crafty stuff I needed to done. Two blankets made for baby shower gifts, and a trick or treat bag for K plus a spare little bag.


                                               blanket1: fleece lined with satin



                                                blanket2: fleece lined with satin


                                       
                                             And here is the trick or treat bag
                                             


Overall I was thrilled to have the majority of the day to get done what I wanted to! Gotta love the hubby! Of course I think K only learned how to play a video game, but it's male bonding who am I to complain!

Signing off one very happy mama!!!

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Well I guess there was progress after all.

     So I was just sitting here thinking that nothing got done today, and we did not go any where.  That leaves nothing to write about.  However upon further evaluation! I managed 2 loads of laundry, cooked a 3 course dinner, and entertained th baby today.  We also fit in a really fun bath time to today.  K love to play in the water.
     Best part of the day?  The AC started working again randomly.  The weather is not bad here it is just so humid it is miserable.  Anyway not much else got done as K was quite a handful today. 

Well I guess there was progress after all.

     So I was just sitting here thinking that nothing got done today, and we did not go any where.  That leaves nothing to write about.  However upon further evaluation! I managed 2 loads of laundry, cooked a 3 course dinner, and entertained th baby today.  We also fit in a really fun bath time to today.  K love to play in the water.
     Best part of the day?  The AC started working again randomly.  The weather is not bad here it is just so humid it is miserable.  Anyway not much else got done as K was quite a handful today. 

Wow busy day

     Ok get up feed munchkin, make breakfast for hubby.  Put baby down for nap, clean up kitchen. Wait for baby to get up.
     Here is where it gets good.  Go to Wal-mart for lawnmower oil, and a few random things.  Get through store, check out put things in car.  Suddenly remember you do not have lawnmower oil.  The one thing you really needed.  Hike all the way back in to store to get such things.  Get home unload bags and now sleeping baby.  Get everything ready to go.  Now realize that you are extremely low on weed eater line.  Blah!! Go figure! Oh well guess it will take a while for the weed eater to get line now.  I hate going into Wal-Mart. 
     Anyway got it all done, and helped the hubby with some work so hopefully he can have some time off this weekend.  Now to get everything together for a baby photo shoot tomorrow.